I agree, it usually feels better to opt out of events like this. Your challenge is a good reminder - we can learn and grow in community in a way that can't happen in solitude. (Plus, I promise myself a treat the next day, like a visit to my favorite place for a cup of tea. Bribery by me works on me.)
Oh, I’m no stranger to bribery either, Carol! I didn’t need it this time, because I do love this group of people, but I often give myself permission to hibernate the next day after socializing. Whatever works! 💚
I agree, it usually feels better to opt out of events like this. Your challenge is a good reminder - we can learn and grow in community in a way that can't happen in solitude. (Plus, I promise myself a treat the next day, like a visit to my favorite place for a cup of tea. Bribery by me works on me.)
Oh, I’m no stranger to bribery either, Carol! I didn’t need it this time, because I do love this group of people, but I often give myself permission to hibernate the next day after socializing. Whatever works! 💚