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Holly Holt's avatar

I’m with you, Lori.

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Lori L. Cangilla, Ph.D.'s avatar

I’m honored, Holly! 💚 ✨

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Wild Lion*esses Pride by Jay's avatar

Lori, I feel you in every word of this. The defiant spark you carry is so familiar to me—one that refuses to let fear dictate our reality. I’ve been there, too, in the moments where the world feels like it’s turning upside down and the weight of it tries to make us shrink. But here’s the thing: just like you, I’ve learned that this defiance isn’t about rebellion for the sake of rebellion—it’s about holding onto our values, keeping hope alive, and refusing to let the noise drown out our truth.

You’re not just surviving this moment, you’re choosing to thrive in it. That’s courage. That’s the kind of heart that brings change, one decision at a time. I’m with you in this—doing our thing, standing tall, and trusting that the small actions we take, the connections we nurture, and the hope we choose are what will make the difference. Thank you for lighting this path.

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Sandra Pawula's avatar

Lori, I so needed to hear this today when I have felt especially down about the new regime. I love yoru spark of defiance and the way you have spoken so beautifully about your line in the sand. The powers that be want to scare us and shake us up so we will submit. Much better to draw our line in the sand.

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Lori L. Cangilla, Ph.D.'s avatar

I’m so happy it reached you at the right time, Sandra! You’re absolutely right, the current regime wants to turn us against each other, distract us, and make us feel hopeless so that we stop resisting and fighting for what we value. I’m definitely not immune to those tactics, but when I see it happening to me, I’m retracing that line in the sand. I think it’s going to be more important than ever that we support each other in staying strong in the face of all that’s happening. I’m so glad to have you in my corner!

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Alexander Lovell, PhD's avatar

In a world that often feels overwhelming and discouraging, choosing hope can be a revolutionary act. Your defiant commitment to hope is an inspiration to us all. It reminds us that even in the darkest of times, we can choose to nurture our spirits, stay true to our values, and work towards a better future. Thank you for sharing your light with us.🩵

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Carol D Marsh's avatar

As an HSP, I had to allow myself the first 60 days after the 2024 election to hunker down, grieve, and pay attention to the despair I felt. This was when so many people were telling us not to give in, get out there and fight! Maybe that was right for them, but it was wrong for me. Having allowed myself the time to feel and go deep, I'm now ready to fight - from a centered place of peace and determination. It was never about compliance, it was about self-care. Now, for the fight.

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Lori L. Cangilla, Ph.D.'s avatar

Carol, thank you for sharing your experience. It’s vital that we tune into what our bodies and emotions need and respect our own timing. Your 60 day focus on self-care was vital, and now we get the benefit of your energy to fight. Having fresh energy in the movement is always helpful!

I also appreciate you raising the point that we don’t know what motivates someone else’s behavior unless they tell us. We shouldn’t assume we’re seeing compliance. Let’s meet each other with gentleness and compassion, not judgement.

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